Well how can I sum up today ….. let’s just say it was a hit and miss.
My friend’s and me went to downtown Toronto so they can do Christmas shopping ….. I was jealous because I am stuck with a 5,000 dollar bill for my smashed car so no spending!
I was suppose to go on my date at 4:00 and I texted him at 12 that I was going to be in the city with them and he said his friend from college is coming so they will be chilling together and he might be there at 4:30.
That was for sure cool. Me and my friend’s just did our own thing for like 2 hours they got what they basically needed except a couple things. I was going to dip at 4:30 but I just had this feeling he had to text me before I left them so you know I am not some idiot loner waiting for a guy.
So I am with them …… I swear to god I never walked so much in my life I got a new hat to battle the cold and stuff so it was all good =3.
4:30 hits ….. then 4:45 ….. 5:00 ….. 5:15 ….. 5:30 ….. 5:45 no texts from him what so ever. Then at one point my friend asked me “why are you even going on a date with some idiot who is nearly 2 hours late?” I didn’t know what to really say I was really just embarrassed and it wasn’t a good impression I had. I texted him at 6:00 that I was leaving.
He sends me a text right back saying he lost track of time with his friend and sent me like 5 texts after saying sorry. I of course just went with it and to be honest it was an asshole thing for me to do but I made him feel horrible for being late. To be honest who makes a guy wait 2 hours for a date.
I mean hanging with your friends is nice but what kind of guy does that make me? That I am not special enough to actually take out your phone and check what time it is so you can come on a date? I am late not going to lie for things but like tops 30 minutes late. I wasn’t happy at all.
He finally came and I just told myself it is stupid to be a bitch and then this whole guy thing will fall apart ….. so I just carried on and it was a wonderful date we had dinner talked, laughed, everything.
We parted ways and I felt confident that this was a guy that I want to get into a relationship with ….. I know it takes time no rushing at all. I don’t want to fuck it up and he is respectable he doesn’t want to get into my pants and I see that.
There is something about him that is really nice and special I am comfortable around him. He just has to become a little bit more assertive and confident in telling me things. It comes in time though :)
Today was a hit because I really loved the date ….. the miss was I spent 2 hours with my friends when I should have been enjoying it with him.